So, because in your eyes she isn't 'normal', that gives you the right to basically kick her out the family? I feel sorry for her..she has got to have some deep seated hatred for you and your family. A lot of people end up doing harm to themselves or others because of the 'support' (or lack of) they receive from their 'non approving' family members. Again, you don't have to like it..but that doesn't mean you have to act like she doesn't exist. I'm guessing you are basing your 'it's wrong' on some religious beliefs? I'm betting that same bible or whatever you read has something to say about treating fellow humans, let alone FAMILY members, the way you are. WHen you say she's not 'normal', that's the same excuse and thinking that cause different religions and races to hate and kill each other. Think about it.