I've been there and done that. Didn't get the t-shirt though, got jipped. The step-dad used to like to fly the leather and resented me big time. I was presented with a chioce at age 9, chose to live with my dad and life was good. That said, if he ever wailed on me like that, I would have grown up, tortured him to death and be known as the sickest MF on death row.