KennyFKINPowerz Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 Im on my 2nd marriage. I knew the first one was a mistake before I did it. And I hate her fkin guts. My current wife and I have been together for 6 years and married for 3 1/2. I can honestly say that I am with my soul mate and I am glad that I did it a 2nd time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
87GT Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 I dated my ex wife for 3 years and she somewhat lived with me. Then we were married for 3 years before we got divorced. I don't see myself marring in the future but never say never. My only advice is never try to change a person. It is a waste of time and energy. 90% of the time people never change. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustlestiltskin Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 I dated my ex wife for 3 years and she somewhat lived with me. Then we were married for 3 years before we got divorced. I don't see myself marring in the future but never say never. My only advice is never try to change a person. It is a waste of time and energy. 90% of the time people never change. :lurk: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erica Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 I believe that your marriage has a lot to do with how you areraised and what you see in your parents marriage or lack there of. The way your parents treat there spouse is a big thing too, generally I think that most people want a partner that will treat them the way that there parents treated each other. Whether they mean to pick someone like that or not is negotiable. For instance, Sean's mother and I are VERY a like in opinions and believes. It really has a lot to do on your take on 'Love' and whether you have been super hurt in the past. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 For instance, Sean's mother and I are VERY a like in opinions and believes. Even in hanging curtains? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forrest Gump 9 Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 ^^^^^can we have a bet going on her marriage??? Just joking. With the believe of "siblings are like your body parts and husband and wife are like clothings". Yes, I would remarry to the right person. But I do like old clothes though. Long time ago a wise man told me this "you marry the one that loves you, not the one you love". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erica Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 Even in hanging curtains? LOLz well almost...I can't complain about anything, I'm lucky I am going to marry a wonderful guy with a wonderful familly! They always have our backs and have always been there for me!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rustlestiltskin Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 LOLz well almost...I can't complain about anything, I'm lucky I am going to marry a wonderful guy with a wonderful familly! They always have our backs and have always been there for me!! AWWWWWWWWWWWW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gillbot Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 dated for 5 years, married for 11. I'd never do it again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TurboTank Posted September 17, 2011 Report Share Posted September 17, 2011 just finalized mine yesterday. would never wish it on anyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
99ta Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 been married over 8 years. we hardly ever argue, my best friend. I am blessed as we were married with the blessing of Jesus Christ and he is the center of our relationship. Without having good morals and respect for one another realtionships won't work out. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tractor Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 Married 10yrs this year. We've been through enough together that we know we ain't going anywhere. Best friends. Dated like 4-5 yrs. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjrsplat Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 Married 10yrs this year. We've been through enough together that we know we ain't going anywhere. We burn cats and shoot dogs together, We're Best friends. fixed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
verse Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 I believe that your marriage has a lot to do with how you areraised and what you see in your parents marriage or lack there of. The way your parents treat there spouse is a big thing too, generally I think that most people want a partner that will treat them the way that there parents treated each other. Whether they mean to pick someone like that or not is negotiable. For instance, Sean's mother and I are VERY a like in opinions and believes. It really has a lot to do on your take on 'Love' and whether you have been super hurt in the past. I think this is very true as well. My ex-father-in-law and I were pretty identical kind of guys. My parents were together and had a great marriage my whole life and that's normally how I see things. Sounds weird, but recently I noticed that my "type" of girl that I chase is very similar to what my mother was. Sounds weird, but my friend who has a degree in psychology said it's pretty normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Not Brian Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 I don't know how anybody could ever marry me.. I just watched my girlfriend do my laundry all day, vacuum my entire place, do my dishes, clean my bathroom, make my bed, and cook dinner all while I sat on the computer drinking. My place is spotless.. and I'm still on the computer lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erica Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 been married over 8 years. we hardly ever argue, my best friend. I am blessed as we were married with the blessing of Jesus Christ and he is the center of our relationship. Without having good morals and respect for one another realtionships won't work out. This ^^^^^ Is how we were raised, and how we will marry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skinner Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 we dated for 4 years and this Nov will be our 12 year of marriage. I hasn't always been a walk in the park, but divorce has been a option. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TTQ B4U Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 we dated for 4 years and this Nov will be our 12 year of marriage. I hasn't always been a walk in the park, but divorce has been a option. child support would own you. cheaper to keep her. :gabe: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RC K9 Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 i know its against a lot of peoples beliefs or religion but i would recommend living with your significant other for at least 6m-1yr. that way there arent any surprises. i bet that will decrease the divorce rate by a lot In for statistics proving that please. I would marry my wife again, and again, and again. Not a day goes by where I regret marrying her, even when it's tough. And no, we did not live together before we were married. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjrsplat Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 In for statistics proving that please. I would marry my wife again, and again, and again. Not a day goes by where I regret marrying her, even when it's tough. And no, we did not live together before we were married. But you may have been even better off if you lived with her before getting married. YOULL NEVER KNOW NOW. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sully Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 I was married once. We were together for almost two years before we got married and had lived together for a year. After a year of marriage, she walked out and had her family move her stuff out the next day. I received an anonymous phone call a couple months later that she had been seeing someone. Nice, huh? We did a dissolution, and I got to keep my stuff. I kept saying I was not going to get married again. I was positive I would not fall into that trap again. However, I have met someone that makes me extremely happy, we get along great, never argue and we are getting married next spring. If this one doesn't work out, I am done for sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImUrOBGYN Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 I've been there and done that. Won't do it again. Simply put, I see zero reason for marriage if there isn't any religious beliefs involved. Done and done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ImUrOBGYN Posted September 18, 2011 Report Share Posted September 18, 2011 In for statistics proving that please. I would marry my wife again, and again, and again. Not a day goes by where I regret marrying her, even when it's tough. And no, we did not live together before we were married. This is simply an exception to the rule. A uniquely, solitary example pulled from the endless list of failed and unhappy marriages. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RC K9 Posted September 19, 2011 Report Share Posted September 19, 2011 But you may have been even better off if you lived with her before getting married. YOULL NEVER KNOW NOW. Still awaiting statistics. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buck531 Posted September 19, 2011 Report Share Posted September 19, 2011 I've known my wife for 20 years. Holy shit I feel old now. I was 15 when I met her at the time and she was 13 (lol). We dated all through high school. I was 17 when my son was born and she was 15 (holy shit again). After she graduated (her parents STILL fucking hated me.. ) We moved out and got an apartment for a year and a half with our son. Got married in '99. Still married. There are rough times and there are good times. We'll probably be together forever. Just as long as either one of us doesn't cheat on each other. She's not the type that would and I'm too fucking ugly and fat to have any honey check me out. (I just don't care). As someone said above, it's commitment. Just to get married to get married to tell your friends.. big fucking deal. The person you married SHOULD be your life partner. If you find someone better.. that's tough shit.. you don't need to fuck them. My parents just had their 50th Anniversary.. 50 fucking years. That's a LONG time. I'm sure my wife and I will make it there (or if I don't die first). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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