Rally Pat Posted October 18, 2013 Report Share Posted October 18, 2013 http://college.jumpforward.com/MailSystemWebView.aspx?c=38443-1590-4408-6205566 He has had Alzheimers for a long time, but hasn't been himself for the past 5 years or so, so it's probably for the best. As someone who doesn't really care about sports in any way, the family is getting lots of emails from his former players who he recruited and coached. It's going to be shitstorm after though, dealing with an uncle who is immediately going to evict my grandmother from her home and sell it, while forcing her into a "retirement community". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc1647545523 Posted October 18, 2013 Report Share Posted October 18, 2013 My condolences. And I wish you patience in dealing with the aftermath in the family drama. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted October 19, 2013 Report Share Posted October 19, 2013 it's a bad week for Alzheimer people... my father passed away on monday from it. (I actually just got home from his funeral) Be glad it was your grand father and not your father... the hole in my heart is unbearable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted October 19, 2013 Author Report Share Posted October 19, 2013 it's a bad week for Alzheimer people... my father passed away on monday from it. (I actually just got home from his funeral) Be glad it was your grand father and not your father... the hole in my heart is unbearable. My condolences to you, I'm sorry to hear that. I actually lost my dad 10 years ago this month to cancer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted October 19, 2013 Report Share Posted October 19, 2013 I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Does it ever get easier? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boosted98gst Posted October 19, 2013 Report Share Posted October 19, 2013 Wish the best for both of you and your families! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Karacho1647545492 Posted October 19, 2013 Report Share Posted October 19, 2013 Alzheimer's is a horrible disease. My grandmother passed away 17 years ago of Alzheimer's. As a 9 year old I wasn't totally aware of what she was dealing with, but I remember being torn up because I understood how much it hurt my mom. I wish you the best and I can't imagine how strong your family must be to have dealt with Alzheimer's for 5 years. My condolences, and best wishes for the future. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Bastard Posted October 19, 2013 Report Share Posted October 19, 2013 My condolences to both families. Pat, I hope everything works out with the aftermath for your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cordell Posted October 19, 2013 Report Share Posted October 19, 2013 My sympathy to you and your family. I wish I had some words to make it easier for you, but you're a good guy Pat and I'll remain positive for you. You know how to get a hold of me if you just need to get away from that madness and stress. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zeitgeist57 Posted October 20, 2013 Report Share Posted October 20, 2013 Sorry to hear about your loss, Pat. My condolences to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TTQ B4U Posted October 20, 2013 Report Share Posted October 20, 2013 It's going to be shitstorm after though, dealing with an uncle who is immediately going to evict my grandmother from her home and sell it, while forcing her into a "retirement community". First, prayers to your family from ours. My father just returned from a brush from death and an 8 day stay at Riverside. Good luck too on the above. Keep tabs on how this goes/plays out. I'm going through a ton of shit with what was done to my father and a detective and prosecutor are forming a case for elder abuse under violation of several laws all of which are felony crimes. If you need any insight on what they are doing to force grandma out and how it can be investigated, just PM Me. Especially if it's in any way abusive or wrong. I've learned a lot in the last 6 months of working on this daily. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Buck531 Posted October 20, 2013 Report Share Posted October 20, 2013 Sorry man. My Dad passed away in January of Parkinsons. My Mom is still going and my grandmother (mothers side) is still going at 92. I have no idea how I'll be when either one of them go. It's going to suck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orion Posted October 20, 2013 Report Share Posted October 20, 2013 I'm sorry to hear that, for both families. I wish you peace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rally Pat Posted October 20, 2013 Author Report Share Posted October 20, 2013 Thanks everyone. It is really a shame, her life is being controlled by an uncle who lives in Texas and never sees her unless its about business, and her daughter lives in Dayton but it had might as well be Antartica because she never comes and visits either. My mom (her daughter in law), my sister, and I are the only ones who help her out. Allegedly she has until February, but obviously right at the moment we are focusing on getting through the funeral stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aaron Posted October 20, 2013 Report Share Posted October 20, 2013 Good luck with everything and sorry for your loss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Otis Nice Posted October 20, 2013 Report Share Posted October 20, 2013 RIP to both families. Prayers for all involved. Between my wife and I we've lost 3 fam members in Oct. Never easy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
6 Speed S4 Posted October 23, 2013 Report Share Posted October 23, 2013 I'm sorry to hear Pat. My condolences Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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