magley64 Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20101008/ap_on_re_us/us_bullying_one_townthoughts, opinions? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fonzie Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 (edited) Is this the same story that's on the cover of People this week?? First I've heard of all of it, until I saw the mag this morning. I find this absolutely sickening....The family watched, she said, as the girls who had tormented Sladjana for months walked up to the casket — and laughed. "They were laughing at the way she looked," Suzana says, crying. "Even though she died."What the hell's wrong with some of these kids today, & apparently the parents who raise them?!? Somebody (school official, funeral home official, church official, parent) needed to escort those kids out & have a "come to Jesus" meeting with them Edited October 8, 2010 by Fonzie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Butters Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 I find this absolutely sickening....let someone do this at the funeral of someone i love....ide be killin someone, idgaf if its a teenage girl or not - just makes it easier to strangle them 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RSVDon Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 Kids are too soft these days. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbot Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 that is my old high school.i don't remember it being all that terrible, but i wasn't really in either the "popular" or "dork" or "ghey" category. poor kids' families. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RFM Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 Kids are too soft these days.Just up Northeast, I guess...I saw bullying, might have been a prick a couple of times, and hit back when I thought that's what the situation called for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Monstrosity Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 this shit pisses me off. those little bitches need someone to hack their faces up with razor blades. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swingset Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 Sad, both that kids can be so fucking mean and also that someone's family didn't see how desperate or self-destructive the victim is....my daughter was bullied pretty bad last year but she didn't let it wreck her, she talked about it, had a good attitude about it and ultimately got through it. Shame this girl's answer was to hang herself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RSVDon Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 Just up Northeast, I guess...I saw bullying, might have been a prick a couple of times, and hit back when I thought that's what the situation called for.Same. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gen3flygirl Posted October 8, 2010 Report Share Posted October 8, 2010 That is very sad, condolences to the family. No one should ever have to lay their children to rest for something that could have been stopped. There was a kid in middle school that's made fun of me alot, one day I snapped and back banded him as hard as I could across the face. I told the principal what happened and she just smiled and said he would never bother me again but hitting is wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dorifto240 Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 Wow... Those girls need their asses kicked. If I have kids they'll never act like that.It's rough being in high school, and I think everyone was bullied/bullied someone at some point; It must be more isolated be an immigrant and not have any social support structure at all.Still, at what point did bullying become so bad that it's worth killing yourself? And again, somebody started laughing at my kids funeral... there aren't enough people in Ohio to stop me from getting to them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EagledriverDRZ Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 The problem is there is NO discipline...The all need there ass kick....Remember when you where little and did something wrong....Untill it comes back there be more of this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
drew95gt Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 That is terrible, if that were my daughter I don't know what I would do. She is too young now, but once she gets old enough to understand I will teach her the same way I was brought up..."treat others the way you want to be treated" and "don't take any sh!t from someone that you don't deserve". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chevysoldier Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 Damn this is so sad. Kids have no respect and no discipline anymore. My class had 97 in it. There were obviously the clicks; preps, jocks cheerleader, goth, nerds...but everyone got along for the most part. I was brought up to treat others as you would want to be treated. I may not have liked someone for whatever reason, but I never felt the need to bully them. The school said the lost the records when switching computers is bull shit. That school is full of shit. I will never live around the Cleveland area. Too much horse shit up there.Pretty girl, it is too bad she will never reach her full potential. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alienpi Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VG44eWPNHuk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kawi kid Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 i dont understand where kids get this as being better? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magley64 Posted October 9, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 Kids are too soft these days.I'm glad I'm not the only one with this thought...^^I was the victim of relentless bullying and torment...so much so, that when the story of columbine broke on channel one news.they described the shooters as loners that were bullied by many students in the school. Literally the entire room turned to "me" with a look of sheer terror at that moment. admittedly, i did feel a sense of prode at THAT moment, "all these people who give me shit every day, are scared to death that I'm going to pack a coupe of uzi's in my duffle bag, and open fire on the school" I was 15 at the time, it felt good to be feared. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vulcan_Rider Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 I feel bad for these families but what the hell happened to saying "fuck them" and moving on? I took a whole lot of shit when I was in school about my weight and my family, which was well known for all the wrong reasons, along with whatever the hell else those d-bags could come up with but never once did I contemplate suicide. I don't mean to be disrespectful or down play the situation but what the fuck is wrong with someone that allows words to bother them so much that they decide ending there life is worth it? I may sound like an asshole but damn, toughen up, realize a lot of people suck, pull yourself up by the boot straps and go about your life, dont fucking end it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cg2112 Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 I got a lot of bullying when I was in school. You know that one kid in elementary school that everyone hates and picks on? Yeah, that was me. And I'll tell you, it was fucking rough. I'm not joking when I say that during those times, I felt more hopeless than I ever have since. I can't imagine killing myself, but I can empathize with the situation, at the very least.Here's another recent one. Gay kid at Rutgers, humiliated by his roommate:http://www.nytimes.com/2010/09/30/nyregion/30suicide.htmlIn this case, there will probably be jail time, at least. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magley64 Posted October 9, 2010 Author Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 In this case, there will probably be jail time, at least.doubt it...highly, the only reason they were charged with this is because of the suicide...a fine, community service MAXIMUM... no judge will make this stick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jblosser Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 8th grade metal shop, we had a girl that was here from Malaysia. Glasses, heavyset, and not pretty. Didn't speak English very well.We were mildly teasing her in class one day. The shop teacher (about TaRR's size) sent her to the office to run off 1,000 or so dittos (remember those, and how good they smelled?). As soon as she was gone, he grabbed a 4 foot 2x4, slammed it into one of those tall, metal trash cans, unloaded a string of expletives describing how stupid and worthless we were, questioned our parentage and our mother's morals, and described, in detail, what would happen to any of us if we EVER spoke a mean word to her again.Problem solved pretty much right then and there. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RVTPilot Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 8th grade metal shop, we had a girl that was here from Malaysia. Glasses, heavyset, and not pretty. Didn't speak English very well.We were mildly teasing her in class one day. The shop teacher (about TaRR's size) sent her to the office to run off 1,000 or so dittos (remember those, and how good they smelled?). As soon as she was gone, he grabbed a 4 foot 2x4, slammed it into one of those tall, metal trash cans, unloaded a string of expletives describing how stupid and worthless we were, questioned our parentage and our mother's morals, and described, in detail, what would happen to any of us if we EVER spoke a mean word to her again.Problem solved pretty much right then and there.Kudos to him. There aren't enough teachers like that anymore. Oh, and thanks for the recall on the ditto aroma. Damn Xerox machines! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Butters Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 what ever happened to good old crackin skulls? someone talks shit, bust them in the mouth...they wont talk shit anymore...eventually people get the point worked for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RSVDon Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 what ever happened to good old crackin skulls? someone talks shit, bust them in the mouth...they wont talk shit anymore...eventually people get the point worked for meYou get expelled from school, your parents disown you, you feel worthless after what you did, and all of the sudden we're back to square one in this thread.Doesn't matter if you were in the right fighting back, you will get booted from the school. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Butters Posted October 9, 2010 Report Share Posted October 9, 2010 You get expelled from school, your parents disown you, you feel worthless after what you did, and all of the sudden we're back to square one in this thread.Doesn't matter if you were in the right fighting back, you will get booted from the school.my parents always told me not to start fights, but to finish them. nobody was disowning me lol.and sure you will get in trouble, but people should get the point way before you make it to the point of being expelled. isnt is generally a 3 strike type deal, per year? thats how both schools i was at were. 3rd fight of the year you get expelled, until then youre golden. (1-3 day suspension, then 5-10 day, then expelled)not including talking shit, setting up outside of school fights, and general dickery.....you have no idea how much shit i got away with....if youre worried about fighting at school, you do it outside of school...when i was 14 i got suspended twice for hitting the same douchebag, so my dad called his dad and was set up for me and this kid to fight outside of school and get it all outta our system uninterrupted...the kid didnt wanna fight anymore, and that squashed it...no more trouble the rest of the yearno way im killing myself for being picked on, theres much better ways to deal with it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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