redkow97 Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Long story short, I brought a friend of mine out to happy hour with my wife and a large group of her coworkers. Wife left around 11, but we stayed and kept the party going. Somehow a group of 8 of us ended up at the hustler club just before midnight. The (coworker) crowd dwindled over the ensuing 2 hours, and that is where I left my friend and my wife's (female, if that needs to be said) boss. They were purchasing their third private dance together as I was heading out the door at 3 AM. There is a 90% chance my best friend banged my wife's boss last night. Now what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redkow97 Posted November 3, 2012 Author Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Ps: boss is nice. Fun. But not terribly attractive. There is no potential for this to turn into a relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bad324 Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Not your problem. Hate when women make something in to their problem when it's notAn ugly broad had a good night and got laid. End of story and your wife shouldn't be concerned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ScubaCinci Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 ^^^this.If it were my wife's boss, I would tell my wife because I know she wouldn't care and actually get a kick out of it. I'd prefer she knew so if it ever came up, she was prepared. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jblosser Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Is your best friend and/or the boss married?Actually, doesn't really matter, does it? Two consenting adults, correct?Keep your mouth shut around your wife (good advice in general, anyway), your buddy will tell you whatever he wants to volunteer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gixxie750 Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 blackmail is the first thing that comes to my mind.. Time for a promotion for your wife! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Exarch Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 I don't see the big issue, unless they start dating. She got some Dick and that's that, if she is normally bitchy maybe she will go into work with a smile Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gen3flygirl Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Jblosser hit the nail on the headJust leave it be. Unless it is Vegas, you take the stripper home or she has an abortion on stage no one needs to know anything that happened at a strip club Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mojoe Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 It's foolish for the boss to think he didn't tell you. And she HAS to assume you told your wife. From there, it should be a head nod secret that isn't brought up, unless by the boss to your wife. Then, let it be girl talk between them. If your wife needs something like this to gain position in a situation, it's probably not a situation not worth being in. But, if you don't tell your wife and the boss does end up talking to her, then that could put you in a bad position. People know shit like this is talked about. keep it close to those involved and leave it there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Helmutt Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 It's foolish for the boss to think he didn't tell you. And she HAS to assume you told your wife. From there, it should be a head nod secret that isn't brought up, unless by the boss to your wife. Then, let it be girl talk between them. If your wife needs something like this to gain position in a situation, it's probably not a situation not worth being in. But, if you don't tell your wife and the boss does end up talking to her, then that could put you in a bad position. People know shit like this is talked about. keep it close to those involved and leave it there.^^This, and congrats to both consentees! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al Z. Heimer Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Fold. Keep playing the hand and you will loose. Plain and simple---None of your Bussiness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imprez55 Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 I don't agree with the consensus here. I say go all in, get a raise for your wife and a threesome with her boss. Wins all around! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cOoTeR Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 I don't see how any of it matters. Unless you were actually the one dipping the stick in the squishy instead of your "friend". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oldschoolsdime92 Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 ^^^ bingo. your not involved. Mention it to you wife as a heads up incase it gets brought up and stay out of it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rusty Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Let's not jump the gun.did he did her,or not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2fat2fly Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 I agree with everyone else. It's not your hand to play. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReconRat Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 Ignore it. Stuff like this goes on all the time. For every one you see, a bunch slip by unseen. Or in other words: don't rock the boat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aforrest4 Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 It isn't an issue... Unless you make it one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ninjachic Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 I agree. It isnt your place to intervene. Obviously, mention it to your wife but make sure she's not going to bring it up to her boss because that could cause issues for her. And you don't want her caught up in the middle of it. It could end badly. But do make sure she does know just in case her boss does bring it up, so YOU dont get in trouble with her. and tread carefully!!!! that could end up in a very very sticky situation for everyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSB67 Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 What are you 12? I thought this was about poker. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rollnhot Posted November 3, 2012 Report Share Posted November 3, 2012 fold 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scruit Posted November 6, 2012 Report Share Posted November 6, 2012 Walk away Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scruit Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 Never count your money Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
max power Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 It's foolish for the boss to think he didn't tell you. And she HAS to assume you told your wife. From there, it should be a head nod secret that isn't brought up, unless by the boss to your wife. Then, let it be girl talk between them. If your wife needs something like this to gain position in a situation, it's probably not a situation not worth being in. But, if you don't tell your wife and the boss does end up talking to her, then that could put you in a bad position. People know shit like this is talked about. keep it close to those involved and leave it there.^ yup. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gixxus Christ! Posted November 7, 2012 Report Share Posted November 7, 2012 (edited) Edited November 7, 2012 by CrazySkullCrusher derp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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