So @Tpoppa @Connie14 have pretty well nailed the real question. Am I adding a comfortable more sporty bike to my stable, or am I replacing it with a rock solid Sport Touring bike. My learned Asian friend nailed that in the first post.
I certainly was checking out T'pop's bike at the Epic ride and the gap trip. If I go sporty and add to the stable the 1200 is an extremely strong contender, as would be the Multi though a different breed than the VFR. Lets face it, I am old. It won't be a liter GXR 1000 or a Busa, I will either kill myself or mess up my body...or hate it because it doesn't have the basic comfort I am used to.
If this is a replacement, assuming Mrs. Tonik is reasonably comfortable, then it will be a Connie when they add cruise or an FJR. Might need to look at the Honda ST, but there must be something up with those...they don't seem to get much love. Honestly, a Wing isn't a bad idea either. Not as fast but damn fast and nimble.
As for the suggestion my son buy me one, he has offered. I turned him down. In the event I get killed or hurt I don't want that on his shoulders. Now, if he offers me a Tesla, I am all over that shit.
I thank each and everyone of you, I really appreciate the advice. It's going to happen....just got to ride the hell out of everything like @Isaac's Papa said. Maybe we need an invitation only OR Demo Day where we ride each others bikes.