Welcome to the real world. Society will judge you by those who dress like you, listen to the same music, have the same tattoos, and behave the same way. If you're a little different from them, but you still have, as a tattoo, their main symbol, well then... Get over it, you're gonna be lumped in with them. And if they're a bunch of morons and you're an upstanding citizen.... tough shit. All you can do is be who you are, but you DO need to realize that people WILL judge you. (Don't they make you sign a release form or something when you get a tattoo, saying that you understand you will be forever judged by it, no matter what it is? Well, they should.)