I'm not filtering in the first place, I'm going over what has happened and having the last word. It works for us, and I hope that what you do works for your kids. Our kids can either be productive members of society, or can leach off of society. I really hope your way works, becasue I don't want to see leaches. We are all in this together.
What nudy bar comment?
You mean this? I guess thats filtering if you want to look at that way, but i consider that avoidance.