awesome you have a job, now you just need to take everyone's advice and pay yourself some.
when I got married 15 years ago, we went into debt pretty heavy. Military didn't pay much and my wife was in school. I set little goals. I took the smallest balance card we had and payed it off. Then the next, then the next, then the car, then the second mortgage on the house, eventually I had just a house payment. I have been able to squirrel away some for my kids college, my retirement, and my toys. It wasn't a simple road and I didn't get to do everything I wanted then, but I can do almost anything I want now.
Read Peter Lynch's books. You can drive new cars now, or you can wait and drive Mercedes and Porsche's later. Your choice.