i figure what better place to get some guys thoughts and opinions on this, and im sure there will be a wide variety.
what's your thoughts/opinions/past experiences? i've never wanted kids, i'm good with them, but i like to be able to give them back. its the best thing about being an uncle. i've had my own rule of not wanting to get involved with girls with a kid/kids...recently, i've been out with 2 different girls, both of which had a kid. for the most part, it didn't seem bad, but the kid situation was still sitting on the top of my mind. so i was kind of rethinking my stance, and im trying to weigh pros and cons. i know theres nothing wrong with having a kid, but it seems like there could be a decent amount of bullshit to have to deal with with an ex, let alone getting far enough into a relationship that you'd basically HAVE to be somewhat involved with someone elses kid since he/she would always be around.
so, lets hear it. im interested to hear from all sides.