I am not saying this is you or anyone else in this thread, you have said you are more than willing to work with teachers and have done so (ie partnership).
But I have to say that some families put way to much pressure and responsiblity on the teacher. They never once help their son or daughter with their school work because its "the teachers job." It seems to always be the teachers fault and never the childs.
Again, I am not saying that the people here do not hold their children accountable but I think its a shame that teachers take so much bull shit when, in fact, the child could give two shits and its their own fault.
Sorry to go off topic.