I dont think you're asking too much in all your requirements but from what i can deduce you want something not-boring & unique but w/ lots to tech. equip.
If youre looking unique i'd go with an older, well maintained Porsche...back to basics, analog & experience. It'll be interesting to you and people who know cars...fuck everyone else.
Newer is, mostly, boring (hyper-cars not withstanding). 997 or if you want people driving next to you go blind, the panamara. From there depending on budget R8, ford GT, Maserati...
i dunno just buy the batmobile.