here's another thing that i think is important to recognize/remember. we ALL have done something wrong driving before. cut someone off, turned in front of them etc. everyone. but when YOU do it, you rationalize it as just an honest mistake. oh i didnt see him coming, oh i was messing with the radio, oh i didnt realize the light was changing. my bad. but when SOMEONE ELSE does it, we instantly assume malice. that fucker cut me off!!!!!!11 why is this? why do we think that its was just an honest mistake when we do it, but when someone else does it they are a fucking asshole who did it on purpose with absolutely no regard for anyone else, and we start frothing at the mouth and shaking our fish. how come YOU can make an honest mistake, but no one else can?