I'm giving the mason jars back. LoL. She can have them back on the 30th if she wants. It's so nice to have friends that are willing to chip in. My bestest bud Jana called me last night and told me her friend was able to get all my linens for free as well. That's saving us $160. Everything has fallen into place so nicely. You are so right. It took me a long time to fix ME after my divorce. It takes two people to make a relationship fail and although I wasn't the one to make the decision to leave I helped in pushing him out the door so to speak. Ray is the most wonderful man that has ever come into my life. My ex treated me so poorly that it makes me so grateful for this new man and I've surely learned to take NOTHING for granted. Ummm ya.....I was stuck with close to 25K of debt from a marriage that lasted less than a year. He went back to living with his mom and dad at age 27 while I got stuck with the debt, paid for grad school, and worked full time to pay off his 2 motorcycles that I got stuck paying for. But we live and we learn. Some learning experiences are just more costly than others. Yes I'd rather have paid for all his crap that to have that type of person in my life right now. I truly believe that man's rejection is God's protection. I'd probably have AIDS right now had I stayed in that marriage from all the infidelity. Suck it Brian! I kid, I kid. And to think I was complimenting your hair and I get all this. Geesh. Hey when I see something I like I got after it. Motivation always pays off in the end. ;)