I think something is going on in Shawn's life that's troubling him. He's lashing out at people (me particularly), which is a sign of depression. http://www.helpguide.org/mental/living_depressed_person.htm Maybe we should make a conscientious effort to derail this thread and figure out what's really bothering Shawn. It's ok man, nothing that can't be 'hugged out' - you just have to help us, help you. The only way out, is through.