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Here's what I'll tell you for those who think Mandie/gsxr750girl was a nice person. You bought the bullshit she sold you. I knew her through friends here for a few years. Hung out with her a few times mid 2009. Then she dated Nate a few months, while fucking around with on him with some other dude(married) by way of text, email, facefuck, myspace or whatever. Nate dumps her and a few months later she's slinging her bullshit to me. I see potential, but know her past. Don't get me wrong, I did like her. I give her the opportunity to un-fuck her ways and be straight up on things. She's all for it and tired of the drama. So for a few months she was on track. My work got demanding for a bit. And I had to go away to set up a school for a few weeks. Next thing you know she's talking to her EX. Everyone told me this would happen. I confronted it, "oh god, give me a second chance”. “I was just getting closure with him and he was crying saying he was going to kill himself". And by EX, it was not Nate. So I set the parameters of what's needed to try again, and she's all for it. Loves me to death and gets my dog tags tattooed on her back left shoulder a few weeks later. It must be love, right? 3 weeks later she complains that her sister in-law thinks I talk to her like a child. I said if you don't like it, grow up and get your own place and not move back in with mom and dad(she's 28). I had been paying for everything while she "paid dept from her EX off". She says she thinks she wants to be single for a while and I try to work things out, but she's done. Goes and gets the tattoo covered with some memorial for a friend from high school. For 3 months, she spent the summer leaching off people in the boat scene on the lakes and seeing a few guys and partying. Then she wants to patch things up with me. Tells me she hasn’t done anything with anyone and just wants things back to where they were with us. Not going to lie, we had had great times and I wanted that back too. Turns out, I was pretty much played by her. So, I knew how she has been, but I try one more time. And I'm seeing red flags everywhere. Bullshit stories on top of each other. She always wanted a dog and I got her one. Took her camping because we wanted to go. Get out there and she's a huge pain in the ass. Complaining and being a spoiled bitch the first morning and I start breaking camp to leave after she says she will have someone come get her. Then she's changes things up when I wouldn't play along. I knew there was something else going on. So, we get back in town and she says she's going shopping with her mom and grandmother. Ok, that's cool. Then next day tells me her dad has been saying she needs to spend more time at home and also that she misses him. Fine, no issue with that. She text me that night saying they were watching her favorite movie and having a great time hanging out. It just didn't feel right. Next morning I went to see her dad at his work. It's close to where I work. And I just ask him everything straight up. He blows her cover and tells me she never shopped with her mom and that he saw her for about 30 minutes that night and she left. He tells me he never knew we were back together and she had told me her folks were excited about it. I told him I was done and apologized for putting him in that position.

There are some great people on this site who have known her a long time. I have seen her call you when she needs you, and only when you are needed to fix some shit she has gotten herself into. Her bikes broke, needs a favor. Why? Why do we keep giving this person a second chance, third and forth chances too. Mandie burns people. The grass is always greener on the other side to her. She will come off with the greatest of intentions and little by little, become a piece of shit and cater to whoever gives her a compliment. Her friend base will always shit with those that are close to her, because close to Mandie never seems to last more than a year. And I mean that from her best friend, to whoever she is in love with. She will burn you and then say she needs another chance. Problem is, she never appreciated the first chance you gave her and she just does the same crap again and now you're out the time and effort, knowing this is just how she is.

She’s never held accountable for her actions and just shifts from friends to friends burning bridges. Are you the next bridge?

This is all shit I have told her. I gave someone an opportunity they didn’t deserve. She told me all the same shit she told the other guys she fucked over. To include, “I put on 14lbs and think I’m pregnant”. “I kind of hope I am and it could fix us”. Nope, turns out you’re chuncky and getting worse. So there it is.

If anyone has a issue with this and is her real friend. We can all sit down and see who is telling the truth. Just don’t be a bitch about it and run your mouth without knowing what really is going on. Maybe an intevention would help her.

Randy, I'm fine talking with you too. I'm sure the shit she told me about you can't be all true.

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Here's what I'll tell you for those who think Mandie/gsxr750girl was a nice person. You bought the bullshit she sold you. I knew her through friends here for a few years. Hung out with her a few times mid 2009. Then she dated Nate a few months, while fucking around with on him with some other dude(married) by way of text, email, facefuck, myspace or whatever. Nate dumps her and a few months later she's slinging her bullshit to me. I see potential, but know her past. Don't get me wrong, I did like her. I give her the opportunity to un-fuck her ways and be straight up on things. She's all for it and tired of the drama. So for a few months she was on track. My work got demanding for a bit. And I had to go away to set up a school for a few weeks. Next thing you know she's talking to her EX. Everyone told me this would happen. I confronted it, "oh god, give me a second chance”. “I was just getting closure with him and he was crying saying he was going to kill himself". And by EX, it was not Nate. So I set the parameters of what's needed to try again, and she's all for it. Loves me to death and gets my dog tags tattooed on her back left shoulder a few weeks later. It must be love, right? 3 weeks later she complains that her sister in-law thinks I talk to her like a child. I said if you don't like it, grow up and get your own place and not move back in with mom and dad(she's 28). I had been paying for everything while she "paid dept from her EX off". She says she thinks she wants to be single for a while and I try to work things out, but she's done. Goes and gets the tattoo covered with some memorial for a friend from high school. For 3 months, she spent the summer leaching off people in the boat scene on the lakes and seeing a few guys and partying. Then she wants to patch things up with me. Tells me she hasn’t done anything with anyone and just wants things back to where they were with us. Not going to lie, we had had great times and I wanted that back too. Turns out, I was pretty much played by her. So, I knew how she has been, but I try one more time. And I'm seeing red flags everywhere. Bullshit stories on top of each other. She always wanted a dog and I got her one. Took her camping because we wanted to go. Get out there and she's a huge pain in the ass. Complaining and being a spoiled bitch the first morning and I start breaking camp to leave after she says she will have someone come get her. Then she's changes things up when I wouldn't play along. I knew there was something else going on. So, we get back in town and she says she's going shopping with her mom and grandmother. Ok, that's cool. Then next day tells me her dad has been saying she needs to spend more time at home and also that she misses him. Fine, no issue with that. She text me that night saying they were watching her favorite movie and having a great time hanging out. It just didn't feel right. Next morning I went to see her dad at his work. It's close to where I work. And I just ask him everything straight up. He blows her cover and tells me she never shopped with her mom and that he saw her for about 30 minutes that night and she left. He tells me he never knew we were back together and she had told me her folks were excited about it. I told him I was done and apologized for putting him in that position.

There are some great people on this site who have known her a long time. I have seen her call you when she needs you, and only when you are needed to fix some shit she has gotten herself into. Her bikes broke, needs a favor. Why? Why do we keep giving this person a second chance, third and forth chances too. Mandie burns people. The grass is always greener on the other side to her. She will come off with the greatest of intentions and little by little, become a piece of shit and cater to whoever gives her a compliment. Her friend base will always shit with those that are close to her, because close to Mandie never seems to last more than a year. And I mean that from her best friend, to whoever she is in love with. She will burn you and then say she needs another chance. Problem is, she never appreciated the first chance you gave her and she just does the same crap again and now you're out the time and effort, knowing this is just how she is.

She’s never held accountable for her actions and just shifts from friends to friends burning bridges. Are you the next bridge?

This is all shit I have told her. I gave someone an opportunity they didn’t deserve. She told me all the same shit she told the other guys she fucked over. To include, “I put on 14lbs and think I’m pregnant”. “I kind of hope I am and it could fix us”. Nope, turns out you’re chuncky and getting worse. So there it is.

If anyone has a issue with this and is her real friend. We can all sit down and see who is telling the truth. Just don’t be a bitch about it and run your mouth without knowing what really is going on. Maybe an intevention would help her.

Randy, I'm fine talking with you too. I'm sure the shit she told me about you can't be all true.

I fucking love this dude!

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dude's.. ive known mandy since middle school.. i coulda told all of you this shit from the beginning... i've stood back and watched the mayhem... ive had a few friends date her.. i've told them my piece then watch it all go to hell like it always does.. she COULD be a great person. she has a good personality and whatnot but she lets whatever else inside muck it up everytime.. from boyfriends to just regular friends.. to people she just uses.. its no different and never will be

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Was the sex at least as crazy as she is?

I'm guessin' it must be better than average, if all these guys keep gettin' sucked in... No pun intended :lol:

The older I get... The less shit I'm willing to put up with just because you have a vagina. That better be some porn sex, for as much drama as everyone says there is

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dude's.. ive known mandy since middle school.. i coulda told all of you this shit from the beginning... i've stood back and watched the mayhem... ive had a few friends date her.. i've told them my piece then watch it all go to hell like it always does.. she COULD be a great person. she has a good personality and whatnot but she lets whatever else inside muck it up everytime.. from boyfriends to just regular friends.. to people she just uses.. its no different and never will be

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This and save a hoe are all that need said. My charity work is done.

Potential can be wasted, just as much as it can be given a chance. In this case, it's a waste.

My only point to posting this shit is this. The "Nice" person you meet, isn't her. It's who she wants you to meet, with a little of this, close to the truth, and a little of that, just so you stay interested.

I will say, I guarantee she will think of me every Valentines Day, the rest of her life.

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its sad.. because i and my wife have tried giving her a chance for years.. myself for 10+ my wife for 5... and its just not worth it.. in the end.. she'll use you as a stepping stone or discard you like you never existed. you can only put so much effort into a chance before you have to give up.. maybe one day she'll change and i hope the best for her.. but we'll see

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its sad.. because i and my wife have tried giving her a chance for years.. myself for 10+ my wife for 5... and its just not worth it.. in the end.. she'll use you as a stepping stone or discard you like you never existed. you can only put so much effort into a chance before you have to give up.. maybe one day she'll change and i hope the best for her.. but we'll see

I keep telling Todd this but i think he's planning a Tip Drill party so whatev.

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