Go change your tampon Hal, one could say likewise about your relationship. You get married, disappear from here and come back and your posting and what not has changed greatly.
Whats wrong with getting an alternative opinion other than your immediate friends and family? Not mad about any of this, there is some great advice in this thread, some useless banter that is to be expected, and she has had some positive response "behind the scenes" that has not been posted here because she made this thread.
Thread....great success