help me with my GF breakup......that happened 5 days ago

[crf69]

okay so ive seen breakup threads on here so here comes mine....i need help because i cannot stop FLIPPING OUT ! bullshit!! i was single for three years prior to this which only lasted 6 months.....but still im telling you what i liked her more than any ive had!

problem one was we lived 100 miles away.....long distance relationships are for the birds i now believe.....but strong enough love shouldnt matter with distance right?

tons of jobs where she lives none here.....i cant leave becasue my daughter lives with me half the time

she finally said its over after all we been through in the short six months.....i went back and forth wathcing her kids while she was at work every week or a little over a week.....we traveled well went to see fenway park camped out in penn.....whatever!!! help me get through this OR!!!(bitch lives in Pickerington by the way)

[magley64]

umm yeah, your odds of making a long distance relationship work are in single digits percentage wise.

just think about all the shit you won't have to put up with anymore, that should help.

[crf69]

umm yeah, your odds of making a long distance relationship work are in single digits percentage wise.

just think about all the shit you won't have to put up with anymore, that should help.

thanks man it does....very much appreciated! never did i think i would let a woman do this to me again.....but damn i was wrong!

[Dubguy85]

I was with a girl for 4 years, and when I broke up I felt the same way... trust me, it goes away.. I then found someone way freakin better, and never knew what love was until I met her.. I am now married to her, and that break up was the best thing that ever happened to me... Sucks for a little while, but way better in the long run man! You will be better for it, I promise you!

[John]

fuck bitches, get money.

[magley64]

fuck bitches, get money.

did you say

[John]

damn straight

[kawi kid]

That picture made my night thanks mags

[jbot]

for the first two years of my relationship with my chinese mail order doll, i was driving from cleveland to columbus every weekend (she worked weekends... as she should).

then, she graduated from school, and decided that working in AZ would be a great idea for 2 years (about 2400 miles away). Somehow, with a very high speed internet connection, lots of torrent/p2p programs and having multiple connections to private pr0n servers, we made it through.

now she lives with me at my house, works full time, barely pitches in for expenses (I have absolutely NO idea where the rest of the money goes...), and does a semi-ok job at keeping my house clean. we're going on 7+ years.

trust me, it is much easier to let HER do the breaking up. I'm slowly wearing away at this one, though.

they ALL give in, eventually.

[chevysoldier]

could always be worse. She could be leaving with a $25K diamond ring you gave her.

[kawi kid]

Btw... I found when I became newly single it was best to keep my self busy... and highly intoxicated lol

[jagr]

Go get balls deep in some random poon and forget the bullshit.

You're a young buck. Get out there and taste the rainbow!!!

[kawi kid]

could always be worse. She could be leaving with a $25K diamond ring you gave her.

Explain!!!!!

[GOJIRA]

Keeping your self busy works until to you stop an all those feelings that your pushing away come an smack you in the fucking face. Then the next thing you know your driving down the road listening to all the songs that you two have shared balling your eyes out like a little girl.

Not that I know anything about that last part. I just assume thats what happens!!!!

[crf69]

thanks guys this is tough as fuck....glad some of you guys really understand....im not as tough as fuck as i thought i was ;(

[crf69]

Keeping your self busy works until to you stop an all those feelings that your pushing away come an smack you in the fucking face. Then the next thing you know your driving down the road listening to all the songs that you two have shared balling your eyes out like a little girl.

Not that I know anything about that last part. I just assume thats what happens!!!!

whats really bullshit is that when i just went to the grocery store an hour ago.....i seen two fucking cars just like hers in the parking lot!!! what the fuck!!!!

[crf69]

i swear they have an on/off switch....wow

[Bad324]

Btw... I found when I became newly single it was best to keep my self busy... and highly intoxicated lol

this and the FBGM references.

I've been able to avoid any serious relationships over the last 6 years and its been great honestly. And before anyone chimes in that it wasn't by choice, it has been because I'm picky as hell, a pain to deal with and have only found 1 girl worth dating and shes 250 miles away and she isn't keen on the long distance thing either.

[Steve Butters]

dude...it was 6 months...that isnt shit... just move on, go bang some random girls and you will forget all about her

[Bad324]

whats really bullshit is that when i just went to the grocery store an hour ago.....i seen two fucking cars just like hers in the parking lot!!! what the fuck!!!!

shit i remember those days. When I left for college my HS girlfriend and I tried the long distance and it just wasn't working so we split. She lived down the street from me so her house was always there. It was real rough, so best thing to do really is just stay busy and dont think about it.

FBGM

[Steve Butters]

bad324, whats a big kicker, is theres a car like hers out in my driveway....good thing he cant see it....

[Habi]

Hell Im newly single after 5 years of marriage, keep myself highly intoxicated and every time I talk to her she reminds me why I am no longer with her! Its my two boys I don't get to see much that I cry about. It can always be worse my friend. Now Im just waiting until it warms up so I can use my spare time to go and get rid of the chicken strips that are waiting for me!

[NinjaNick]

I had a similar situation about a decade ago. My chest felt like it was caved in. I thought I was losing my mind.......took about 6 months before I stopped missing her. Eventually things got better and it was just a life experience. Shit gets going again and it will be just another experience for you as well. Keep ya head up man.

[crf69]

dude...it was 6 months...that isnt shit... just move on, go bang some random girls and you will forget all about her

i cant even fathom that right now man....

[crf69]

Hell Im newly single after 5 years of marriage, keep myself highly intoxicated and every time I talk to her she reminds me why I am no longer with her! Its my two boys I don't get to see much that I cry about. It can always be worse my friend. Now Im just waiting until it warms up so I can use my spare time to go and get rid of the chicken strips that are waiting for me!

i have new shoes ready to put on my 1000rr....fucking spring yet! ughh!!