I would drop this girl like a bad habit! Cold turkey dude A lot of girls (too many, in fact) have this flawed way of thinking. I have a theory on this, but its complicated. Lets just say the theory revolves around the fact that every girl out there has some dude that is and always has been ...Thus girl gets a big head Look, I'm sure you're a great guy and you're a catch. Trust me. There are sooo many losers out there its not funny. So why don't you think about yourself in that regard? If you really want to stay with her, then now is the time to play hard to get. She obviously wants to be with you but is getting selfish. Make her work for it a little and she'll learn to appreciate and respect you and your opinions.