Sure...i understand loving someone so much, and wanting to take it to the ultimate step. The deathlock of marriage. Jk. In my opinion, you need to be 187% sure...that it's gonna work out. That this is the person...you want to wake up to...every morning. Make a life with, have kids with, etc. Unfortunately...alot of the time...it doesn't work out. Women change when they become married, men become bored with what they have...and cheat. And...now what? You end up with a messy divorce...try to decide who gets what, legal fees, wasted time. When...if you weren't married in the 1st place, just ending it would have been so much more simple. I met someone...and she brokededdd my heart....jk. (yeah...i meant you, you know who you are) Like i said, if you've been with someone for a year, 2 yrs, 9 yrs...whatever...you guys love each other (at you least you hope, and should) why mess it up? Why put yourself through that? Why try to fix...or improve something that's already good? I have no problem if anyone else wants to get married. That's your decision, and i'll be happy for you. At this time, i just don't think it's a wise decision. I'm still young...so maybe my opinion will change in time. Probably not. To the op and backseat, congrats! I'm happy for you guys, and wish you nothing but the best.