kirks5oh

My brother said it could end badly. Sure. It could. It has ceelrtainly started off pretty fucking awesome though. Craziest of the crazy. That can be said about any woman in any profession

girl pictured above is a nurse, who also teaches nursing school. not at my hospital. yes, i've witnessed through others' experience that dating women where you work is a bad idea. especially when all the nurses are women. the divorce rate is 50% and if people are honest, i'd be willing to bet roughly half of people are unhappily married. so the happily married guys are in the minority. again, kudos to them.

could have done without reading that. i was in first grade, if i recall, watching it at school

serious question where do you find good looking, educated, professional women, who are successful, in their 30's, single, and may have kids??

i will thank her doc for the great work, and thank the lord i didn't have to pay for the surgery. by no means am i knocking marriage. my alternative was being married to a habitual cheater who spent money like a drunken sailor on leave. so there was no alternative for me. i'm not out to degrade women either---any girl i meet and date, i see as a long term relationship. otherwise, i'm not wasting my time, and not setting a shitty example for my twin girls--who have met one girl i dated for almost a year. downside of tinder/being single---- having to sort through tons of debris to find the needle in the haystack. not having someone all the time to come home to, support you, etc not having someone to help with my kids--i don't need help, but its tough doing what i do with 50% crazy shit some women, do, say, or expect upside of tinder/being single---- going on more dates then i ever did in my 20's before meeting my ex being able to quickly eliminate crazies, and people i don't have common interests with being able to spend my money however i want, and zero explanations to anyone--i can basically do whatever i want, whenever i want going through the haystack looking for the needle--not going to lie, its fun dating a lot of chicks surprisingly, being better off financially even paying tons of child support i don't feel sorry for married guys---only married guys who are unhappy. i envy those that are truly, happily married.

http://i690.photobucket.com/albums/vv265/kirks5oh/Mobile%20Uploads/image_17.jpg Ask and you shall receive. No dirty pics, and this is from Her Facebook. Pretty sure I'm in love. Haha

when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. and if a chick is willing to pour that lemonade over her huge DD fake boobs, and down her front---i'm going to drink it, and celebrate. that being said, at some point my goal is to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, no doubt. but i'm enjoying the present :fuckyeah:

you should be proud of your marriage. i was, for the first five years. the last five years sucked, and the last two were intolerable. yet i stuck with it for the kids' sake. (they say never to do that, but easier said than done). sure, i'd rather be happily married---but it just wasn't going to happen. having kids is an amazing job, incredible responsibility, and my kids take priority. but i don't have them 50% of the time, and they will be 18 and out of the house in less than 10 years. there are plenty of people just like me, who just got unlucky and married a douchebag. and then there are plenty of people who are not marriage material (the leftovers you talk of), who have major flaes, have issues, etc etc. the challenge is finding the first thing and not the last thing. they are harder to find, but do exist. after 30, there are many more women/men with issues, than without. if you don't find some of these stories the least bit entertaining, i'm sorry. it is what it is. going through a nasty divorce changes a person. it thickens the skin 10 fold. that being said, i think i just went out with my next ex wife last night :lolguy: i did NOT order her a meatball sub at dinner

All of my buddies are married, and all of them want to look at my phone for pics, or hear stories. being happily married is great. Being married and miserable, or dealing with someone who gives zero effort is not worth it. It's not bad being (relatively) young, single, educated, in shape, and successful. Leaves quite a few options open. If I didn't have my kids 50/50, and a busy career, I could get into a lot of trouble.

its amazing how badly people let themselves go here. if i'm flying anywhere, on the way back to wisconsin, i can always find the gate of the flight headed to milwaukee. just have to look for the gate littered with packers shirts and cows. when i go anywhere warm (florida, etc), i feel like i've been transported to an alien planet with a whole different species of human. its absolutely incredible. i will have to take some screen shots of the pictures of women here on tinder.

you need to see your family dr regularly. and they should have visits specifically for emergencies. don't use the ER as your family dr. that's a $1000bill vs. a $75 bill to see your family dr. if the family dr. told every kid with a cold that it was a 3 month wait to see him that person would be out of business immediately if its gout, labwork isn't terribly accurate. but you would take indomethacin to treat it---should be dirt cheap. fix your cankles---your bp is likely off. and trim your nails

fucking hilarious, i couldn't help laughing throughout the whole story. it was her first date right after getting divorced. women (and guys) forget how to date after being married for a long time. she made all kinds of rookie mistakes---didn't really talk to him before the date. drove to the date in his car. didn't have her girls at the bar next door ready to save her if the guy turned out to be a weirdo, etc. dude ordered her a meatball sub, while he ordered surf and turf. and then ate half of her sub while she was gone. made a comment to the waiter, asking him if he thought she had fake boobs.

i've found you're much better off going to the local bar and finding the low hanging fruit :fa: or maybe hoping to meet the perfect woman at the grocery store, library, or church. shit, ain't nobody got time for that. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vUbTTPmD6nc i take everything on that site with a grain of salt. i assume the chick is talking to other guys, and when she tells me she's out with friends, there's a 50/50 chance its not true. it is what it is. last time i checked i'm not an angel. its an extremely easy way to sort through tons of women. i only go out with women that have kids, otherwise, they are just too selfish and don't understand why i can't talk or text constantly when i have my kids.

yeah, current chick i'm seeing had an absolute tinder nightmare story. it was just too insane to be made up. dude ordered the most expensive thing on the menu, drank 18 cokes, ate half of her meal when she got up to text her friend to come rescue her, made all kinds of creepy remarks about her body, stuck her with the bill at the end of dinner, and then asked if they were going to have 'intercourse'. who the fuck does that? its not uncommon for people to use old pictures on tinder. it is what it is. again, friending them on facebook and looking through their current pictures will help sort out the fatties if you're shallow (and we all are).

very true. the kids said "pick her, she looks fun" i had to agree :lolguy:

i said the same thing when i was in my 20's. people change with time--you can grow apart, lose things that you once had in common, kids are fantastic, but can add stress to a relationship (or take the sole focus off a narcissist). i was married for 10 years, and my ex decided the grass was greener. whether she regrets her decision or not, i don't regret mine (to throw her out). never pictured being divorced, and 38. oh well, i have plenty of time to do better this time. i can't imagine how crazy it would have been if these sites were around when i was in my early 20's and just looking to get laid.

my tinder description says i have a great job, house, divorced for 2 years, and 3 kids that are my priority when i have them. if they start asking about my job immediately, it raises a flag. i'm all for having fun, but ultimately would like a relationship, and not crazy ass women knowing where i live. so i pick and choose chicks to meet up with. so far so good. current chick is definitely potential. i live in a small town, so all of it gets back to my ex---its entertaining to see her get pissy/jealous. :lolguy:

lol funny story. when i was getting divorced, the kids never left the house---i had an apartment i stayed in 50% of the time, while the ex was in the house, and she had a separate apartment for when i was in the house with the kids. in the end, i kept the house, and had the apartment for 4 months. i had a one year lease. i was dating a girl at the time, and she thought it was funny to go to the apartment and 'dirty it up'. this is the same chick who thought it was a good idea to 'use' my ex's SUV while i was going through the divorce---(my ex was out of town and had her SUV parked at the house.) yeah, i'm still laughing about that too. she sold the SUV shortly after. honestly, i don't tell chicks my job until i meet them. most of the women i date are in health care. they know what my lifestyle and job entails---or they know what kind of money i make and that's the real reason they are so into me. i could care less at this point. i'm not out to get married anytime soon, but have had pretty good luck on that site. current gf i just started seeing is a nurse, who also teaches nursing school.

tinder is hit or miss. i would agree with most, in that the pool of worthy candidates dwindles after 30. that goes for men too. there's almost always a reason a guy who is over 30 has not landed a wife, or is divorced. does he have a drinking/drug problem, no career, abusive, etc. it goes both ways. what do you think chicks say when 99% of the texts they get on tinder are people asking them to fuck and show them nudes that being said, i live in a town of 33k people--almost exclusively blue collar. its near impossible to meet a younger, professional woman without serious issues---without the help of a dating site. with tinder, i can look within 50 miles--find a match, text back and forth, talk on the phone, and go from there. i've found you can see exactly who someone is by looking at their facebook page. i haven't had any tinder disasters (yet), and have surprisingly met some decent women on there. 4 out of the 5 women i've gone out with on tinder, i still talk to and hang out with. two of them are seriously hot, have a college education, and 6 figure jobs--its actually impressive. every woman (and likely every guy) over the age of 30 is going to have some baggage. once you meet someone, find out there's chemistry, there are only two things left to do::: 1--find out what the baggage is 2--decide whether you can deal with it or not i've had numerous dodged bullets on the site though. a simple phone conversation, and facebook search avoids 95% of the crazies. my nurses can spot a crazy from a mile away---they all hated my ex wife---go figure my kids did see me looking through tinder one time and asked what i was doing. my response::: looking for a baby sitter.

i usually tip 20% if there's a service that involves a waitress and walking---period. get me my carryout food, or make me a sandwich---there's no tip. deliver my sandwich to my table and bring me drinks, and i leave all my shit on the table when i'm done---yes, theres a tip, and it's almost always 20%, unless you piss me off for some reason. some of my fondest memories were getting ice cream after wrestling or soccer practice with my dad. its not a reward---its building memories that will literally last a lifetime. i am infinitely more sensitive to these things now that i'm a single father. shitty parents and people without kids just won't get it.

Aren't we talking about the ss sedans??? Plain looking sedan with the ls3 motor? Honestly, I've considered picking one of these up (assuming they have that fantastic 8 speed auto), fortifying the bottom end, and adding a turbo. Can you imagine the sleeper status?

At 24 you're just a kiddy. Plenty of time to do whatever you want. You've had a taste of the real world, and some experience to really decide what you want to do. Hell, I didn't start my "real" job till I was 32. I used to think you had to go to high school, college, grad school, etc one right after the other. That's simply not true. A lot of colleges/graduate programs heavily favor those who have been out in the real world as opposed to a pimply 18 year old who may have never worked a single job in their life. Hell, There was a 57 year old dude in my med school class who ended up going into surgery. Talk about a mid-life switch. I agree with bob in that you need to set a long term goal and work towards it. Be patient.

Fank is a great guy. He trained both me and my brother, and Brent Bickel. Sounds like you're way ahead of schedule. Keep up the good work.

A knee replacement has a way of humbling someone like no other surgery. Most people are on narcotics to some degree for 6 weeks. Even completely reasonable people may need occasional narcotics at 3 months. It's that painful.

yeah, that would be kind of funny to see that article. appendicitis is often the diagnosis of exclusion, and the appendix ends up getting removed too often. full blown appendicitis, is a surgical condition, and it always will be. sometimes people have vague right lower quadrant pain, a CT scan is ordered, and the radiologist reads the appendix as 'abnormal'---these people currently get their appendix removed, but may be candidates for antibiotic treatment. when you're in there in surgery, the appendix looks ok, but you remove it anyways because you don't know if it is truly inflamed or not--the CT scan simply shows its thicker than what you would expect a full-blown case of appendicits on the verge of rupturing is a different story.