Schmuckgirl, sounds like you did everything right. There isn't a magic riding position for riding 2 up. Every passenger is going to force you to make different adjustments in different situations. Sadly, it's gonna be trial and more trial (some say error). Your legs/hips got tired more quickly, but that will subside once you figure out the more comfortable and beneficial position for you. Going 2 up w/an experienced passenger or rider would make finding your spot & line easier. On your ride yesterday both you and your passenger were learning 2 up riding for the first time, which increases the learning curve. Good luck convincing Schmuck to ride bitch while you master 2 up riding!