For what it's worth, would you HAVE to sell the house? Depending on your finances and what the wifey could score as a job, you might be able to just rent a place near Hudson and keep your Columbus house as a rental...allowing you to come back at some point. I've got a good property manager. Then, you can live "dat condo life" in Hudson (no yardwork, no home maintenance, focus on your life and cars) while still taking a tax deduction in C'Bus. Also keeps it flexible in terms of you guys moving back to Columbus at some point.
I appreciated being in FL - always planning on coming back to Columbus at some point to start a family - and keeping our first home as a rental; we could always kick out a tenant and move back in if we needed to.
As stated before: keep on the track for that new job, and remain flexible.