You're a team. If she doesn't buy off on that after all these years, especially with her being at home, then you'll have to deal with that either way. Better now that later. You aren't the cause.
Is the cake shop profitable? Providing you as much as if she were to get another job? If not, you know what to do.
I understand that, but said it back when you opened it that the timing wasn't likely ideal to try a new business. Dream or not, if you don't have an income and can't survive then you have to wait.
What do you need to meet your minimum. Can't get back to where you were from the start but you can make a living.
Honestly, it's been years, why do you need all of the above? You can't come into work at a regular time? Do you still need pain meds? Just asking.....in the end, you have to get yourself back into a routine and commit to a schedule if you have a desire to get back to work.