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Originally Posted By BurnedOutLEO:

Dynamics of Encounters

Hold up men target victims on the street in an impulsive, opportunistic manner. They see someone and make a quick judgment call on whether to rob them. The time between when you are targeted and they are on you isn't long. Therefore, situational awareness is everything.

If you see G coming you are in good shape. If you don't you will be the victim who says "He came out of nowhere". No he didn't. There are many tricks to watching out but simply watching your back is the main thing. Watch your back. If you do it enough it becomes second nature and you won't even realize you are doing it.

Watching out is great but unfortunately many self defense courses stop there. You have parked you car in a well lit area, are aware of your surroundings, and looky here, here comes three guys across the parking lot and they start to kind of fan out.

When you lock eyes with G the very first thing you need to do it indicate you have a weapon. It doesn't matter if you do or not. If you are a woman put your gun hand in your purse and keep it there. If you are a man fan your shirt or coat tail with your gun hand. Make it clear to dude you are mentally prepared to draw and making sure your gun is clear. This will many times result in an about face by dude. It is the single best robbery avoidance tactic IMHO.

Not long ago I was walking down the sidewalk in my town to go get my car. I was holding a folding chair in my gun hand. A car slow rolled past me with 4 heads in it. The guys in the back seat turned around as they went by looking at me. They went a little farther and U turned in the street.

Here they come back. As they started to slow down I looked at them with as contemptuous a look as I could muster and switched the chair to my left hand and flicked my shirt tail with my right hand. They just drove on mad dogging me.

In another case I was at a Christmas party and walked a girl to her car about 3 am. As we said our good-byes two guys were walking across the parking lot. One went behind a dumpster. I though he was peeing. He came out from behind the dumpster with a bottle.

As they got closer I stepped clear of that girl and unzipped my jacket at those two guys. When I did the guy threw down the bottle and they walked by cussing at me. If someone challenges you after you indicate you are armed say "I don't have a gun". Then they will know you do.

Here is an opposite story. A girl my brother knows was walking her dog when a guy approached her. She was polite. Mistake. He talked to her about the dog and said she had pretty hair and reached out and touched her hair. She did not slap his hand down or aggressively object. Mistake. He asked her if her dog bit and she said "No". At that time he slapped the shit out of her, drug her into a wooded area, and raped her.

The answer in the street is always "No". Can I ask you something? No. Do you have a cigarette? No. Can you tell me what time it is? No. The answer is always "No". Don't be nice. Stop the encounter as soon as it starts.

When to draw

Despite warnings I often see on the Net I have yet to encounter an instance in which a hold up man called the police to report his intended victim threatened to shoot him. Thugs do not want to come into contact with the police. They may already be wanted or realize chances are good they have been identified in a recent robbery. Or what ever. They are not going to call the police if you draw on them.

Supposed two guys are approaching you in a parking lot and do the classic fan out maneuver. You indicate you have a weapon by clearing your gun hand and fanning your jacket at them. They are not discouraged. DRAW!

I am not saying you should pull your gun out, assume a Weaver stance, and scream "That's close enough motherfuckers!" What I am saying is draw your gun and hold it beside your leg as you start to move to cover. I am very fond of telephone poles. Anything will do though. They will see this. They will remember they have to be somewhere else. They will not call the police.

Then you can just put your gun back in the holster and go back to whatever you were doing like nothing happened. Why? Because nothing did happen. A happening is when shots are fired.

Do not hesitate to draw. If you are somewhere you are supposed to be and someone appears who is not supposed to be there like a closed business show him the end of your gun. Could it be Mother Teresa looking for her lost cat behind your closed business? No it is some motherfucker up to no good. He won't call the police to report he was prowling a location when a guy ran him off.

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Part 3

Originally Posted By BurnedOutLEO:

When to shoot

The time to shoot is immediately upon seeing his weapon. You are not a police man who has to try to arrest the guy. No need to scream at him. No exposure while you yell for him to drop the gun.

In deer hunting the experienced hunter takes the first good shot. May not be the perfect shot but it never is. Novices pass up a doable shot waiting for a better shot and then the deer is gone. Take the first good shot you are offered. Hopefully your alertness and hostile cues will prevent you ever having to fire. But once you see his weapon, shoot.

If a guy is coming at you with a gun in his hand shoot him. Shoot him right then. If you don't shoot first you may not shoot at all. I have known more than one person who was shot and received life changing injuries and also shot their attacker. Their only regret was not shooting sooner. Like Bill Jordan said "Nothing disturbs your enemy's aim like a slug delivered to the belt buckle area".

Guns and weapons

The handgun is the best weapon you can carry easily. I understand it is not always possible to have one due to laws, restrictions, whatever. I am not telling anyone to disregard laws about carrying weapons. Each person has to decide for themselves what they are comfortable with. I will say there is no substitute for a pistol when you need one.

Also if you can not be trusted with a pistol after a few drinks you can't be trusted with a pistol period. Booze is liquid bad judgment no doubt but it shouldn't make you into a damn moron. If you are a moron sober I don't know what to tell you.

Types of guns and ammo are always debated and probably always will be. I have seen people shot with all common calibers. My conclusion is if you hit someone between the collar bone and the tip of their ribs three times with anything, they are handled. Bigger is better but something is better than nothing. Get your front sight on his shirt and stay on him as long as he is standing with whatever gun you have.

Just have a gun with sure fire ammo. Draw early and fire immediately upon seeing his weapon. That course of action is about all you can do to up your odds of ending things favorably. Guns like the Ruger LC9, SIG 239, Glock 26/27 are examples of guns small enough to carry but with enough power and capacity to be useful. Do not be afraid to use a French Lebelle if that is the only gun you have. A gun is a gun. I like a Glock 19.

Training

We all want the best training. It can be expensive if you are having to pay for it and it can be hard to find the time to do it. There is a whole lot of BS out there. What can you do? First, pistol handling is not rocket surgery. If you will learn the basics and practice on your own you can be fine. Smooth draw, quick pairs, reload. If you know those things well you can be OK.

I know a young man who shot down two hold up men in 2010 at very close range while he and his GF were walking home from the store. He in Wyatt Earp like fashion ignored the fire coming from the gunman and killed him and wounded his accomplice. He nor his GF were injured. He like many was willing to give them the money until he picked up on nonverbal cues that because of his GF they were not quite satisfied with the money. He had a Glock 27.

He had only the most basic of training in gun handling but did do some draws and some dry fire a couple times a week and live fired maybe once a month. That basic skill combined with knowing what to do was enough. He shot at the first possible moment despite having let the guys get the drop on them. When the gunman turned his head because a car drove by that was the opening. A split second is a long time sometimes.

Work on some one hand shooting at close range. That is a skill not as popular as it once was and you want to use two hands when you can. Often you can find yourself doing something with your off hand though so be able to shoot with one hand out to 5 yards or so.

After

If it comes to pass you are forced to shoot someone do not feel bad. When the police come just tell them a guy threatened you with deadly force and you were forced to fire. I know there are bad police out there in some parts of the country who don't support self defense. I can't help you with that.

Do not talk to them until you have your attorney present. Now most young guys don't have an attorney on retainer and you may have no idea who to call. That is OK. You will figure it out but in the mean time don't talk about what happened other than to say you were forced to fire. You don't have to be an asshole just remember wait for your attorney.

Hopefully you will not give a statement for a couple days. Remember if you are put in jail that doesn't mean you are charged. Most places can hold you 48 or 72 hours on a felony before charging you or letting you go. Breath deep and get an attorney.

Expect to never get your gun back. You may get it back one day but maybe not. Do not buy expensive guns for the street. Buy yourself a nice sporting gun if you want a nice gun. Keep your street guns basic. The factory Model 10 Smith and the GI 45 have done a lot of work over the years and aren't fancy.

Worlds

We all live in different worlds. My world is filled with felons and gang members. Violence is common place. No one would be surprised if one of their friends called and said they shot a hold up man at a place of business or parking lot. In the past when I made calls the fact that the guy who is beating his GF is also on parole for 2nd degree murder flavored my world.

You may live in a smaller, less violent place where shootings seldom occur and it would be a rare to shoot a hold up man. I envy you and will be moving to a place like your town as soon as I can.

But be advised no matter where you are a hold man is going to be about the same. Whether he is a home boy or a guy who just exited the interstate into your town and needs some quick money. He is going to have a vicious streak and no regard for your life. Treat him like he treats you.

Giving them the money, doing what they say, all that may work but there is no guarantee. If you have never read Jeff Cooper's book The Principles of Personal Defense I suggest you order a copy immediately. It is a short book but summarizes a lot of important things.

Last year we had a trial here regarding an armed robbery that occurred. Three or four guys took a young couple from a parking garage near a college out by some railroad tracks where they raped, shot, and beat them. Their lives will never be the same.

The lesser thugs all turned on the trigger man at trial. The trigger man's statement in the paper was after all that had happened he felt like he was a victim. Think about that. That is the mindset you are up against.

I hope I got all that. If not the thread can be read here.

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Wow, this was a great read. Really pisses me off reading this and hearing about the shooting at the high school today. The laws need to change, and soon! It's almost impossible to legally defend yourself because of all the gun laws, and all they do is make it worse for law abiding citizens. As this post states, I don't think the thug on the corner is too concerned with the gun laws.

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Reading it now... but I will say that living and growing up in the city, I have a habit of spotting trouble early on. And stopping dead in my tracks and turning and looking square at the trouble. It usually goes away. They don't like that at all. Early identification of who they are. Surprise is gone.

Also a big fan of sticking near cover at all times in risky locations...

edit: I've seen or known most encounters stopped by simply the quick display of the weapon ready.

Everyone goes away quick. Both the bad guys and the good. Good advice, leaving immediately.

Even knew one fight in public on campus, broken up by some girl leaning out a window and firing two or three shots in the air.

Everyone gone in a heartbeat...

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Wow, this was a great read. Really pisses me off reading this and hearing about the shooting at the high school today. The laws need to change, and soon! It's almost impossible to legally defend yourself because of all the gun laws, and all they do is make it worse for law abiding citizens. As this post states, I don't think the thug on the corner is too concerned with the gun laws.

Agree. If its ruled a good shoot in a criminal case there should be no liability for a civil case.

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Great read. But a few things caught my attention.

1. "If someone challenges you after you indicate you are armed say "I don't have a gun". Then they will know you do. "

Not sure I get this

2. "Supposed two guys are approaching you in a parking lot and do the classic fan out maneuver. You indicate you have a weapon by clearing your gun hand and fanning your jacket at them. They are not discouraged. DRAW!". (no mention of BG having a visible gun yet)

And this

"The time to shoot is immediately upon seeing his weapon. ..........

......... But once you see his weapon, shoot..........

If a guy is coming at you with a gun in his hand shoot him. Shoot him right then".

These seem to conflict.

What's to say the other guy (assumed to be a BG, but maybe just another armed citizen like you) doesnt do the same and shoot you because you had your hand on your (visible) gun and assumed YOU were the BG?

I would guess this is the difference between living in the slums and not. Be more on the defense, shoot first ask questions later mentality.

NoBama 2012

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"The handgun is the best weapon you can carry easily. I understand it is not always possible to have one due to laws, restrictions, whatever. I am not telling anyone to disregard laws about carrying weapons. Each person has to decide for themselves what they are comfortable with. I will say there is no substitute for a pistol when you need one."

This is what I keep saying that several of our "Boyscouts" dont agree with, whatever. If you see me, Im carrying. I dont really give a fuck if there is a sign that says no. I will not be that guy again. I left it in the car once instead of on my side. I took two rounds the GF took one before I could get to it and return fire. Many on here have seen the scars and heard the story, it wont happen again. If you choose to leave it behind, you are probablly too concerned about the legality of when to fire that you will never pull the trigger anyway.

It does as he said take a different kind of person to shoot a man, I will not hesitate. If you go back to the car and leave your gun because a sticker at the grocery store said no guns, you will hesitate.

Hate on.

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"The handgun is the best weapon you can carry easily. I understand it is not always possible to have one due to laws, restrictions, whatever. I am not telling anyone to disregard laws about carrying weapons. Each person has to decide for themselves what they are comfortable with. I will say there is no substitute for a pistol when you need one."

This is what I keep saying that several of our "Boyscouts" dont agree with, whatever. If you see me, Im carrying. I dont really give a fuck if there is a sign that says no. I will not be that guy again. I left it in the car once instead of on my side. I took two rounds the GF took one before I could get to it and return fire. Many on here have seen the scars and heard the story, it wont happen again. If you choose to leave it behind, you are probablly too concerned about the legality of when to fire that you will never pull the trigger anyway.

It does as he said take a different kind of person to shoot a man, I will not hesitate. If you go back to the car and leave your gun because a sticker at the grocery store said no guns, you will hesitate.

Hate on.

My feeling on the signs is if they don't like my gun then they don't like my money I go back to the car and leave.

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"The handgun is the best weapon you can carry easily. I understand it is not always possible to have one due to laws, restrictions, whatever. I am not telling anyone to disregard laws about carrying weapons. Each person has to decide for themselves what they are comfortable with. I will say there is no substitute for a pistol when you need one."

This is what I keep saying that several of our "Boyscouts" dont agree with, whatever. If you see me, Im carrying. I dont really give a fuck if there is a sign that says no. I will not be that guy again. I left it in the car once instead of on my side. I took two rounds the GF took one before I could get to it and return fire. Many on here have seen the scars and heard the story, it wont happen again. If you choose to leave it behind, you are probablly too concerned about the legality of when to fire that you will never pull the trigger anyway.

It does as he said take a different kind of person to shoot a man, I will not hesitate. If you go back to the car and leave your gun because a sticker at the grocery store said no guns, you will hesitate.

Hate on.

And like I said, I understand your reasoning and would prob do the same if I were in your shoes.

NoBama 2012

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If you see me, Im carrying. I dont really give a fuck if there is a sign that says no..

Hate on.

A guy i work with has that same attitude. He told me if your carrying conceiled no one will know you have it on you, but if you have to use it they will be glad you did. My thoughts are basically the same. If i run into the gas station or what not and notice its posted i dont turn around, go back to the car, dissarm then go back in. I just go in get what i need then leave. If i was to be found carrying inside i would apologize, put whatever items i had down and just leave.

IMO, the potential for "OMG, MWAG WTF 911 HELP!" is 1mil times higher dissarming and re-arming outside of the store.

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I saw this a week or two ago, and was thinking (I know, right?!) on the way home from darts last night that I should post it up.

Cliff's:

- The answer is "no" to anyone asking you a question, except:

- The answer is "yes" when asked if your dog bites, even if it doesn't

- Shoot first

...If you see me, Im carrying...

He's armed and ready to fire at all times, especially in a bathtub full of jello and nekked womenz... :D

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Well said.

Be alert, be aware of your surroundings and realize your handgun is no good unless you are ready to use it, so once drawn you must be ready to pull the trigger.

I worked at a VA psychiatric hospital and was on the psyche emergency team. I worked admissions as well. Did this for about 10 years. You learn to watch without thinking about it and to sense things going amok. Never had to deal with firearms but these guys had many different weapons. But even after all that you have to keep honing your senses or you will relax too much. Then it can happen.

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"The handgun is the best weapon you can carry easily. I understand it is not always possible to have one due to laws, restrictions, whatever. I am not telling anyone to disregard laws about carrying weapons. Each person has to decide for themselves what they are comfortable with. I will say there is no substitute for a pistol when you need one."

This is what I keep saying that several of our "Boyscouts" dont agree with, whatever. If you see me, Im carrying. I dont really give a fuck if there is a sign that says no. I will not be that guy again. I left it in the car once instead of on my side. I took two rounds the GF took one before I could get to it and return fire. Many on here have seen the scars and heard the story, it wont happen again. If you choose to leave it behind, you are probablly too concerned about the legality of when to fire that you will never pull the trigger anyway.

It does as he said take a different kind of person to shoot a man, I will not hesitate. If you go back to the car and leave your gun because a sticker at the grocery store said no guns, you will hesitate.

Hate on.

Relatively new here, but would like to hear your story.

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