Boost-n-Juice Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 I lost my Uncle last Sunday and now my Granny this past Friday. Growing up in Hilliard with 90% of our Family from both sides living with-in 2 miles of each other was nice. It was the perfect Suburban childhood. I was the Chubby lil boy with a smile on my face always wanting to help my Grandparents. My Granny took me to the WWF events at the Convention Center Downtown (remember when that was the hottest thing in Columbus!) and I was blessed by having her live with us from the age of 11 to 18. Then I started partying until I was about 20 and didn't go see her as much but could have. Then I met my wife and once again I should have spent more time with Granny. Then it was time to grow up. I had my son when I was 26 and once again I could have spent more time with her. Most recently I had a major surgery was laid up for a few months. Granny knitted me a blanket and I had several chances in the past 2 months to go see her but I didn't. Thursday morning she had a massive stroke. I went to visit her that afternoon and up until I had arrived she was not coherent. I was able to get her to open her eyes, squeeze my hand and she was clearly trying to talk to me but couldn't. I know she heard what I was saying and I apologized about not coming to see her and to get my blanket. I thank God for this precious time I got to spend with her and I feel at peace now. It will still be hard to know that I could have spent more time with her over the past 12 years or so but chose not to. She passed away exactly 22yrs to the day, after her Husband (same day Pearl Harbor was bombed). She always said she couldn't wait for the day she would go to Heaven and be with him again. The love they had for each other was stronger than no other. She is in a better place now and doesn't have to suffer any longer. I miss you already Granny and you will never be forgotten. Love you! Brian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slimpsy1647545505 Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 Sorry for your loss. This was very touching. Thank you for sharing it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GRN96WS6 Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 Damn sorry to hear Brian but it's so true. I have one living grandfather who is 81 and I call him once a week and try to visit him when I can, he lives 8 hours north of me in Connecticut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1qwk767 Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 sorry to hear Brian, she sounded like she was a great mother/grandmother/greatgrandmother my condolonces to you and your family man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TTQ B4U Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 If I ever get to bed, I'll keep you in my prayers before I lay down. I know exactly what you mean regarding time. My father is pretty far up in years, not in good health, and I'm dreading the day I get a call...... Until then, I call twice a week and visit as often as my schedule allows. I want my kids to know their grandparents on my side before it's too late. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XChris1632X Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 My Great Grandfather died a month and a half ago and I was in Texas. I hadn't seen him in five years because I was so busy. Now I regret it all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amy Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 Brian, you and your family are in my prayers. You have my cell... if you need anything, dont hesitate to call! Best wishes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bhobs Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 Sorry about your loss I know how you feel I just lost my dad about 4 months ago....its hard to have to go through that. Stay strong for your family and thank god everyday that you have the people in your life that you have now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smokin5s Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 you can live your life thinking I could have this or that... she understands that you have your own life to live and I'm sure wanted it no other way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ramsey Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 I am very sorry to hear this. Remember the good times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SpaceGhost Posted December 10, 2007 Report Share Posted December 10, 2007 I wish my grandma would let go, she is in advanced stages of parkinsons and is trapped inside her body. Very sad. I will put a bullet in my mouth if I am diagnosed with that shit when I get older. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RS69 Posted December 11, 2007 Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 Brian, Sorry to hear about your loss, you and your family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boost-n-Juice Posted December 11, 2007 Author Report Share Posted December 11, 2007 Thank you everyone for the kind words and prayers. It's much appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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